A one of a kind 5-month healing program where high achieving womxn of color can safety gather in community to break free of survival patterns, like perfectionism and people pleasing, born from generational trauma.
As a member, you will learn proven personal development skills to master self-awareness, manage triggers, nervous system regulation, somatic self soothing, reparenting, and confidently reconnect with the subtle whispers of your intuition.
If you're ready for greater alignment and confidence in all areas of your life - RECLAIMING is for you!
NEW COHORT STARTING SOON
Are you 1st gen or a womxn of color?
Are you a high achieving professional struggling with perfectionism and/or people pleasing?
Are you struggling to manage overwhelm and anxiety?
Do you feel disconnected and desire more clarity and confidence?
Are you curious about deepening your spiritual connection with source and manifesting your highest self ?
SYMPTOMS OF GENERATIONAL TRAUMA IN HIGH ACHIEVERS
Betraying your boundaries and needs to please and prioritize others
Feeling like no matter what you do, it's just not good enough
Not voicing your needs for fear of judgment, rejection, or retaliation
Being extremely critical of yourself when you don't meet goals or expectations
Cycling through burn out as you prioritize achievement, status, and productivity
Self-medicating with drugs, alcohol, food, sugar, or constant "busy" work to avoid your feelings
Looking to others for fulfillment, validation, and direction
Confusion over why your relationships keep repeating the same problems
IF THIS IS YOU - YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE AND YOU GET TO BREAK THE CYCLE, LOVE!
Think about this…
Who were you told to become?
How were you expected to behave?
When did you start dimming your light to please others? What did you need to DO right in order to receive praise, love and affection? Did you finally feel fulfilled when you did do all the things “right”?
Perfectionism and People Pleasing are trauma responses. Periot!
It’s time to repair the way you think about your self worth. Mija, it's no longer serving you to attach your VALUE to your work, productivity or ability to rest.
IN MANY WAYS, HEALING IS A PROCESS OF UNLEARNING
What happens when we as high achieving womxn start to heal our trauma?
We begin to understand the real reasons we are motivated to "achieve" and "succeed". This is especially important for our 1st gen sisters, who have a uniquely complex relationship to work and success.
These discoveries allow us to move away from "hustle culture" - from denying our needs, wants and desires. We are no longer motivated by fear, scarcity, or lack.
We begin to move with ease and grace towards the things that speak to our soul.
We become ALIGNED.
WHAT FOLX ARE SAYING
Jessica K., Social Media Marketer
(I) have more empathy towards my mom and understanding for how she treated me. It doesn’t excuse her negligence and abuse but I can see how the traumas she went through affected her behavior and parenting style. And I saw how I am in a privileged position to be able to talk about my emotions and struggles with someone like Nicole but my mom never got that chance. So I felt more compassion, sadness, and grace for her.
Being in a space with other women who come from similar backgrounds and have similar stories or difficulties with families and are choosing themselves was really powerful for me. It was the permission that I needed to put myself first...Having a group to explore spiritual topics with was really great for me and I feel like having the community as well as the guidance of the lectures has helped me grow more in alignment and brought more clarity to my connection with spirit.
Musician and Neuroscience Student
Nicole has taught and given me the tools that have helped me control my emotional state, wellbeing, and spiritual connection. Instead of allowing myself to spiral and being consumed by intrusive thoughts, I've learned how to witness myself with love and compassion. Nicole taught me how to understand the root of these spirals, and how to bounce back with ease and grace.The entire experience I felt loved, safe, supported, and held exactly how I was in that moment.
I have asked for and received multiple raises at work while at the same time finding a way to not work as hard by addressing the root causes of my perfectionism and people pleasing, and I am starting to see a bigger and brighter future for myself where I can live a life that is authentic and not dictated by what what other people think.